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Communication when co-parenting is key

On Behalf of | Jul 20, 2018 | Family Law

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Good communication is extremely important when it comes to parenting, and this doesn’t change when parents gets divorced. However, communication is especially important when divorced parents are co-parenting because the circumstance involves more than just the husband and wife.

How a co-parenting relationship develops has major impacts on both the parents and the kids. The parents’ ability to successfully navigate the obstacles that can arise in relation to co-parenting often depends on how well they are able to communicate with one another.

There are many key discussions divorced parents have with each other when co-parenting. Conversations about scheduling, the kids’ special events, household rules, and the kids’ behavior are only a few examples. These discussions can touch on delicate issues and can sometimes be challenging. However, there are a few things parents can do to try and make these conversations more productive.

Here are four communication tips for co-parents:

  • Be polite and professional when talking with your ex – This is particularly important when you are in front of your children. You don’t need to like your ex-spouse but respecting him or her is important when it comes to your kids. Children thrive best with a loving, supportive relationship between parents, even if they are separated.
  • Stay focused on the kids’ best interests – Focusing on your kids could help keep conversations from diverting to topics that are unproductive and likely to lead to conflict. Remember, your focus is your children and what is best for them, not you or your ex-spouse.
  • Use technology – Modern technology provides many routes of communication beyond in-person interaction. Email, texting, and scheduling apps are just a few examples of ways you can communicate your child’s schedule without having to see your ex-spouse face-to-face.
  • Plan ahead – Having a clear plan in place can help avoid miscommunication as well as ensure a smooth and stress-free transition for everyone.

Maintaining good communication in a co-parenting relationship is in your children’s best interest. When you are focused on your kids, it makes interacting with your ex bearable, and it ensures your children are being cared for in the best way possible. Do not hesitate to contact one of our family law attorneys with any questions you may have regarding your divorce. We are here to help in any way that we can.

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